Teenagers vs. Parents???

When a person celebrates his/her 13th birthday, there are many people to give advice about the teenage life and also many people who give good wishes to enjoy the teenage life. Going by the advices and good wishes the teenagers start their teenage life. Parents, relatives, friend, siblings, cousins and many more people give you different advices, tell you to enjoy this phase. 
Is it really the crucial phase for the teenagers or the parents???
YES it is a crucial phase for the kids! Not only because they go through mental and physical changes but also because their parents and relatives create havoc. Parents and relatives start interfering in their life; want to know each and every detail about their life. When you say that your child has grown older, has become a teenager then doesn’t that mean that he/she can actually handle some of their matter? Why parents and relatives have to get involved? Can’t they trust their child? Does a teenager always commit mistakes??? Even if he/she has not committed any mistake then also why parents feel that he/she has done something wrong? If the teenager just likes reading romantic books, it the world’s biggest issue for their parents. They feel their kid is doing something wrong. Their kid is going in the wrong direction. WHY??? Why is it necessary that if their child is reading a romantic book means that their child is doing something wrong???? Why each and every movement of the teenager is considered an offense by their parents? If their teenagers have a friend of opposite gender then why do they think that their teenager is going on some other path? Can’t that friend of other gender be actually a friend??? Going through all this interference, stress about studies and all the ciaos happening in their life with friends will the teenager actually enjoy these days???? 
As teenage is a crucial phase for the kids it is the same way for parents!!!
All the parents want to help their child through this phase but everyone has their different way to do so. All Parents help their bud to blossom into a beautiful flower. The parents have to take care of their child as well think of the society. They have to make their child learn all the rules of the society. Parents just try to be protective but why their child feels that their parents are interfering??? It is the concern which forces the parents to keep an eye on their kids then why do the kids take it as interference???If the children are going through the correct path, then will their parents think that their child is doing something wrong??? If a teenager really has just a friend of opposite gender, then why will their parents doubt about it??? Does feeling concerned mean they don’t trust their child???
In spite of the thing that the teenagers have their parents for their help then why many of them go on the wrong way??? Who is at fault if a teenage boy starts smoking and drinking??? Who is at fault if a teenage girl goes to a late night party???
According to me….sometime parents get too involved and sometimes children go on a wrong path! For this no single person is actually to be blamed! So, this war is going on since years and will continue till years…..Teenagers vs Parents!!!