Almost in every situation you have to decide whether to expect or accept. Some of you may say that just accept what life gives you and live happily and some of you may say whats wrong in expecting a little bit more? This is not a fight between two people having different opinions but actually it is a fight going on inside you....between your brain and your mind. Your brain always tells you that accept what you get but your mind doesn't agree. Your mind always says you can get even better.
This fight goes on from little things like choosing a job to choosing a life partner. Even when you get pretty well salary from your job your mind expects more... Your mind tells you that if you are getting this much then you can get even more which is totally against your brain because your brain tells you that your salary is pretty decent. So some people listen to their mind and start searching for new job here comes Instability. But the fight doesn't end here. Again after some days you feel like finding another job with even more salary and it goes on.... Same happens while choosing a life partner. When you find a person with some good as well as some bad qualities, your brain says its OK but your mind wants more...Your mind wants some one perfect.
So now the real question is when to stop expecting and start accepting??? At some point or the other you have to stop expecting because Common guyz...be real!!! ... Is it really possible to get a perfect life partner without any flaws?? Or a perfect job paying the highest salary? NOOO! Its impossible! No one in this world is perfect.. neither you nor any other person. So if you are not perfect then how will you get a perfect life partner or a perfect job?? And you know what....your brain is quite aware of this fact but how to convince your mind about it? When will your mind stop expecting everything to be perfect?
Why not accept a job which gives you a healthy lifestyle? Why not accept a person with some flaws? Don't you thing this would help stabilize your life? Reduce the number of breakups and divorces? If you start accepting then that would lead to a happy life!!!
So sometimes JUST ACCEPT and BE HAPPY!!! :)
This fight goes on from little things like choosing a job to choosing a life partner. Even when you get pretty well salary from your job your mind expects more... Your mind tells you that if you are getting this much then you can get even more which is totally against your brain because your brain tells you that your salary is pretty decent. So some people listen to their mind and start searching for new job here comes Instability. But the fight doesn't end here. Again after some days you feel like finding another job with even more salary and it goes on.... Same happens while choosing a life partner. When you find a person with some good as well as some bad qualities, your brain says its OK but your mind wants more...Your mind wants some one perfect.
So now the real question is when to stop expecting and start accepting??? At some point or the other you have to stop expecting because Common guyz...be real!!! ... Is it really possible to get a perfect life partner without any flaws?? Or a perfect job paying the highest salary? NOOO! Its impossible! No one in this world is perfect.. neither you nor any other person. So if you are not perfect then how will you get a perfect life partner or a perfect job?? And you know what....your brain is quite aware of this fact but how to convince your mind about it? When will your mind stop expecting everything to be perfect?
Why not accept a job which gives you a healthy lifestyle? Why not accept a person with some flaws? Don't you thing this would help stabilize your life? Reduce the number of breakups and divorces? If you start accepting then that would lead to a happy life!!!
So sometimes JUST ACCEPT and BE HAPPY!!! :)
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